It wasn’t meant to be – or was it?

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When things don’t turn out the way we desire a very common expression is to say “it wasn’t meant to be” and, I admit, in the past this phrase used to freely roll off my tongue like the slippery little lie that it is.  Yet, what are we actually saying when we utter these words?

I see this statement as a way of pretending that you are less than you are and that you don’t have the ability to create what you truly desire.  It’s an excuse to sink into a state of lack of awareness and diminish your greatness.

Here’s the thing – you are an infinite being, therefore:

  • If you desire it, then have it.
  • If you desire to do it, then do it.
  • If you desire to be it, then be it.

YOU create the possibilities for yourself, not the universe or god or some other being. To think otherwise is to give away your power.

Instead of saying “it wasn’t meant to be” ask yourself if you truly wanted it in the first place.

If not, then acknowledge that. Be honest and admit that you chose not to create that right now. Stop lying to yourself and pretending that something else is directing your life and that you have no say. (You’re an infinite being remember!)

If you did truly want something and it did not turn out the way you desired then shift from victimhood (it wasn’t meant to be) to empowerment (I’m having this! I don’t know how yet, but I’m having it). Then start asking questions – What else is possible? How can I change this? What awareness can I have about this? What would it take for me to have this?

In Access Consciousness we call this “Being in the Question”. You are inviting the universe to respond to your request and you will find that new awarenesses and possibilities start to show up.

Asking questions does not mean that you must then seek answers. This will get you caught up in the mind and will limit your possibilities. Stay in the energy of the question.

Another aspect of the statement “it wasn’t meant to be” is when we desire something but are not willing to step beyond our comfort zones to get it. It’s an easy excuse to say “it wasn’t meant to be” and then give up because change seems too daunting.

Every time you hear yourself say “it wasn’t meant to be” stop and consider the lie you just told yourself and tune in to your actual truth.

  • Did you really want it?
  • Did it just appear different than you expected?
  • Were you unwilling to step beyond your comfort zone in order to have it?

The more you catch yourself saying “it wasn’t meant to be” the more you can choose to eliminate this victim statement from your vocabulary and become more aware and empowered in your daily life.

Keryn Lee is an Access Bars Facilitator, Theta Healing Practitioner, Tarot Reader and Empowerment Teacher. Visit her website for more information about her sessions and classes www.kerynlee.com.au or contact her on 0408 857 620 or keryn@kerynlee.com.au

More information about Access Consciousness is also available at www.accessconsciousness.com 

Pathways to Freedom

brain pathwaysTheta Healing – Part Two of Three

Last month we took a look at one of the elements of a Theta Healing session that is called Belief Work which is based on the understanding that thought creates reality. This month we look at a another component that is known as Feeling Work.

This part of a Theta Healing session is about building new neural pathways in the brain. Neural pathways are like superhighways of nerve cells that transmit messages. The more one of these ’superhighways’ is used the more solid it becomes, and when they are not used, they atrophy.

As an example, consider someone who is addicted to food, alcohol, drugs or cigarettes. Turning to these substances when the person is under some sort of stress becomes a familiar habit because this neural pathway has become well worn and so the brain automatically uses what is more easily accessible instead of seeking out an alternative.

In such a situation, the person has generally forgotten how to feel fulfilled, how to feel joyful and alive without turning to substances. They have forgotten how to cope with challenges and how to overcome difficulties effectively, because these neural pathways are rarely used.

Fortunately, the brain is ever-changing and new pathways can easily be created. To do this in a Theta Healing session we decide what neural pathways would support the client and then ‘download’ those feelings.

For someone with depression we might download feelings like—I know what it feels like to be happy, I know what it feels like to  live without anxiety and I know what it feels like to enjoy life—and this creates a new neural pathway.

It should be noted also, that many people do not know what it feels like to be happy or joyful because due to life circumstances they may have never experienced  such things. By connecting with Source/the Creator/All That Is, we access the feelings of joy and happiness at their highest potential and then teach the cells what these things feel like and so a new neural pathway is born.

Choosing the pathways the client might like to build takes only 5 or 10 minutes, and ‘downloading’ these feelings takes only a few minutes. The results are instant and life-changing and take place at a cellular level.

This is fantastic for addictions, phobias, lack of self-esteem and illness as well as helping to learn new skills, gain confidence enhance intuition and so on. The sky is the limit.

Next month in Part Three – Connecting with All That Is will be discussing the Theta brainwave state and how energetic healing takes place as well as our connection to Source.

How can Theta Healing help you?

Theta Healing can help you release limitations and improve aspects of your health, relationship, finances, spirituality and life in general. From addictions, phobias and weight issues to gaining confidence, developing intuition or specific skills and allowing greater joy and abundance into your life.

Contact Keryn to book your Theta Healing session 0408 857 620 or see website for more information www.kerynlee.com.au